Trust your gut here! Realize too, that you may actually start finding someone else a whole lot more interesting, and you need to be alert to this possibility. By Halie LeSavage. Your friends will know and understand your pain. She put him in a difficult situation. Easy and smooth.
He could either have ended their friendship or ended our relationship.
Does it somewhere on him? You sound less "lost" in farm country than "bored" in farm country. In your head this is like a big green light saying go get 'em. It's not necessarily a bad thing but it's not necessarily a good thing either. Keep your dignity intact. I though we were starting to move toward dating again, then came my birthday. Very self-destructive path.